Calling out to Sad Bastards everywhere...

Spawn_Eternal · Post by **Spawn_Eternal** » Tue Feb 11, 2003 12:48 pm

Seriously..if u can't show ur girl love EVERYDAY and need a special date to remind you..then u don't Deserve a lady...
and seriously..It's kinda sad seeing People Sad on Valentines day because they don't have a date..
SAD because they don't have a date on VALENTINES day..Not sad because they don't have a date..period...
Chill and it will come to you, that's how i met my Significant other ...took me almost 2 years of being single

BishounenStalker · Post by **BishounenStalker** » Tue Feb 11, 2003 2:28 pm

Deaths_ally wrote:yeh, but what makes it worse for me.. I'm nearly 20... man, now I'm getting depressed.. time for some metal *starts up winamp*

I'm 21 and never had a boyfriend, so quit yer b**chin'

At any rate, the secret to avoiding depression on V-day is to think of it as the stupidest holiday of the year. You should be honoring yourselves as lovers EVERY day, not just Feb. 14 (and yes, take the definition of "honoring" any way you like

). All V-day is is an excuse to boost candy, flower, and jewelry sales.

As for seeing deliriously happy couples on V-day and having no one to cuddle with, that's another easy solution: STAY HOME! Me, I drag out all my favorite movies, anime an non (including but by no means limited to: Indiana Jones, ID4, the ORIGINAL Jurassic Park, Return of the Jedi, The Neverending Story, and The Dark Crystal), grab a few wine coolers and some homemade dinner and dessert and have a ball. Or if you're in the violent mood, remember this bit of V-day wisdom: Al Capone knew how to party.

MAS PRODUCTIONS · Post by **MAS PRODUCTIONS** » Tue Feb 11, 2003 2:29 pm

I date all the time but I dont like having a steady girlfriend that I have to commit to. I have alot going on in my life as far as college and work goes, I dont need a girlfriend just to make my life more depressing. I think I am going with some friends to our local pizza place and we are just gonna hang out. V-day is just one day, it reminds some guys that they need to date and other guys that they need to pay attention to their woman. Valentine's day was made for women, gives them an excuse to go out and get jewelry from their significant other.

KhayotiK · Post by **KhayotiK** » Tue Feb 11, 2003 7:01 pm

I promised my Ex-fiance that I would spend Valentines with her, so I'll be going out with her to dinner, even though there's no point. I'd rather BE at home then tied down to somebody that's not worth my time, but unfortunately a promise is a promise...

tacooe · Post by **tacooe** » Tue Feb 11, 2003 8:11 pm

BishounenStalker wrote:
Deaths_ally wrote:yeh, but what makes it worse for me.. I'm nearly 20... man, now I'm getting depressed.. time for some metal *starts up winamp*
I'm 21 and never had a boyfriend, so quit yer b**chin'

At any rate, the secret to avoiding depression on V-day is to think of it as the stupidest holiday of the year. You should be honoring yourselves as lovers EVERY day, not just Feb. 14 (and yes, take the definition of "honoring" any way you like ). All V-day is is an excuse to boost candy, flower, and jewelry sales.

As for seeing deliriously happy couples on V-day and having no one to cuddle with, that's another easy solution: STAY HOME! Me, I drag out all my favorite movies, anime an non (including but by no means limited to: Indiana Jones, ID4, the ORIGINAL Jurassic Park, Return of the Jedi, The Neverending Story, and The Dark Crystal), grab a few wine coolers and some homemade dinner and dessert and have a ball. Or if you're in the violent mood, remember this bit of V-day wisdom: Al Capone knew how to party.

well I'm 17 and have never had a boyfriend either. I've never had a Valentines card or anything and I'm thinking that that's not such a bad thing, I hate people who get all worked up when they don't get a card or over priced flowers. I'm not bothered though, it doesn't mean anything if they only express they're love or affection on such a conventional and boring day. The worst gift has to be those tacky teddy bears that hold hearts and spout some sentimental shit, I would so dump someone if they bought me that, if someone who I was attached to was so possessed to do so.

Anyway, I'm liking what you're doing BishounenStalker, do you mind if I join you, I love those films. What's your favourite Indiana Jones film, the best has to be the Last Crusade?

Flint the Dwarf · Post by **Flint the Dwarf** » Tue Feb 11, 2003 8:14 pm

MAS PRODUCTIONS wrote:I dont need a girlfriend just to make my life more depressing.

You know, generally, girlfriends aren't supposed to make life depressing. Quite the opposite, but maybe I'm being idealistic...

No, I'm not.

MistyCaldwell · Post by **MistyCaldwell** » Tue Feb 11, 2003 8:22 pm

wow so many singles here at the org.

And a pretty negative view of relationships as well. Poor kids

SS5_Majin_Bebi · Post by **SS5_Majin_Bebi** » Tue Feb 11, 2003 8:22 pm

flint_the_dwarf wrote:
MAS PRODUCTIONS wrote:I dont need a girlfriend just to make my life more depressing.
You know, generally, girlfriends aren't supposed to make life depressing. Quite the opposite, but maybe I'm being idealistic...

No, I'm not.

No, not idealistic. My life has been happy since i met my gf, Tiffany. I mean, a depressing gf is just gona drag u down with her. i went out with a girl about 2 yrs ago who was suicidally depressed. It nearly drove me insane when we broke up coz when i was with her i was busy tryin to help her, and i forgot all about me! that was the worst christmas/new years of my entire life. Spend new years in tears, and that'll teach you a few hard lessons.

tacooe · Post by **tacooe** » Tue Feb 11, 2003 8:38 pm

I had a friend like that. She cut herself for attention, ate like a pig, never left your house, never washed, borrowed things and never returned them and when she phoned you she let it ring once and then hung up so you would phone her back. I'm glad I'm not her friend anymore, she's such a dick, pathetic.

SS5_Majin_Bebi · Post by **SS5_Majin_Bebi** » Tue Feb 11, 2003 8:50 pm

some people are like that, but.

o, but i hope me and my current gf last a long long time. im getting sick of trying to find a new person when you know youve already had the right person about 3 times before. That bites ass.