why do girls like guys who look like girls?

EarthCurrent · Post by **EarthCurrent** » Wed Jul 09, 2003 10:28 pm

At least I have cookies!

madmallard · Post by **madmallard** » Wed Jul 09, 2003 11:05 pm

emp|typ|athetic wrote:
sixstop wrote:I suggested the topic because it was equally stupid and base-less, as well as sexist, shortsighted and stereotypical as "why do guys like huge tits." Girls use that as a way to criminalise guys alot, just because they find something more attractive than something else. Yet girls escape this type of criticism . . .
You got me there.

uhm. . .yeah. I didn't expect that reply. . . .

anyways. . .again, i wasn't trying to be all down on anyone, and i hope you didn't mis interpret. The reason i ragged on you in the other thread was because you never replied to any of the things that people posted, so i though you were just stirring up trouble. Obviously you came back later, so if I came off that way, i'm sorry.

me. . .i'm a guy. I like women. I find some things more attractive and desireable than others, just like girls. Something i find attractive on one person can be repulsive on another. I'm not locked in anything and i can change my mind if i want. Just like girls.

So just because a girl likes a lean guy whos smooth and has long hair (legolas) doesnt mean she can't like a heavy, strong guy with lines and . . .no hair. (jet black)
And just because a guy may like girl with a heavy chest with lost of movement doesn't mean he can't like the girl lacking cleavage but shows off her tummy.

What stirred me up so much was the perception that it had to be one or the other. thats stupid.

. . . i think i'm done. . .

OmniStrata · Post by **OmniStrata** » Thu Jul 10, 2003 12:08 am

Summanaro wrote:are you talking about guys with long hair? because guys with long hair look gay... I mean... inside they must really scream "CROSSDRESSER!!" but they just can't go through the whole transformation because they 'think' they're in a biker gang... =/..

I should tell Jet Li and Steven Segal [and myself] to kick the shit out of you...

Long hair is a sign of royalty in some countries and I wear it proudly as a warrior of martial arts...

[the fact that I look badass standing in the wind before a fight has nothing to do with this I swear...]

SarahtheBoring · Post by **SarahtheBoring** » Thu Jul 10, 2003 6:14 am

Okay, fair enough - I wasn't answering people, where was that? I already come to this site too often; I can't be answering every post that comes in as soon as it's made, ya know.

And I think the #1 problem here is that nobody seems to understand the concept of MAKE-BELIEVE.

Show me that a REAL girl literally left you for a REAL guy who LITERALLY looks like a REAL girl and you have a case. Whining that anime guys look prettier than you just makes you look like a loser, because you cannot tell the difference between real and make-believe. Who cares what anime guys look like? Do you seriously think they're real competition? I certainly don't bitch and moan about how anime girls have 73DDDD size breasts and I don't. I used to years ago, but hooray, I wised up.

LightningCountX · Post by **LightningCountX** » Thu Jul 10, 2003 11:44 am

OmniStrata wrote:
Summanaro wrote:are you talking about guys with long hair? because guys with long hair look gay... I mean... inside they must really scream "CROSSDRESSER!!" but they just can't go through the whole transformation because they 'think' they're in a biker gang... =/..
I should tell Jet Li and Steven Segal [and myself] to kick the shit out of you...

Long hair is a sign of royalty in some countries and I wear it proudly as a warrior of martial arts...

[the fact that I look badass standing in the wind before a fight has nothing to do with this I swear...]

HAHAHA, damn straight. Plus, how can Summanaro watch anime when alot of its characters have long hair.....Espically Inu-Yasha in his avatar..... Lets get him!

KungPaoChicken · Post by **KungPaoChicken** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 3:05 am

SarahtheBoring wrote:Show me that a REAL girl literally left you for a REAL guy who LITERALLY looks like a REAL girl and you have a case. Whining that anime guys look prettier than you just makes you look like a loser, because you cannot tell the difference between real and make-believe. Who cares what anime guys look like? Do you seriously think they're real competition? I certainly don't bitch and moan about how anime girls have 73DDDD size breasts and I don't. I used to years ago, but hooray, I wised up.

you never heard a typical guy conversation that goes:

Guy 1: Man, I just got dumped.
Guy 2: Ya? What a bitch.
Guy 1: Ya... and have you seen her new boyfriend?
Guy 2: Nope, not yet.
Guy 1: He's so gay.

???

the Black Monarch · Post by **the Black Monarch** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 11:48 pm

LightningCountX wrote:why do girls like guys who look like girls?

Because girls look better than guys. Therefore, guys who look like girls look better than guys who look like guys. Duh.

And no, it has nothing to do with hair length, although I am growing my hair out.

EarthCurrent · Post by **EarthCurrent** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 11:54 pm

Mmmmm, cookies.

Hoeya · Post by **Hoeya** » Sat Jul 12, 2003 12:13 am

Kinda reminds me of reverse racism. A black guy can insult a white man, but if you insult a black man, you run the risk of being called a racist.

I think that it has more to do with confidence than anything else. I've seen some feminine men in my time, and most semed very confident about the way they looked and that is shown in their movements. They tend more to glide rather than walk, and many feminine men are more soft spoken. Ohter, more "manly" men, feel threatened by their confidence and resort to contempt or catagorizing them immedeatly as a homosexual.

It seems to be a big defense mecanism in men, when someone isnt acting the way they feel "a man should," they immedeatly catagorize them as homosexuals or "fags," as it were. It makes men feel better about themselves, especally if they have low self esteem, like many men do.

CheeseBeFriend · Post by **CheeseBeFriend** » Sat Jul 12, 2003 12:36 am

Toecutter wrote:Nope, it's because their domineering, manipulative bitches, who want someone who will brush their hair, and socialize in a feminine way, without threatening their territory. I go into a detailed description in the "Why do guys like huge tits" subject.

I am not!!I'd hate it if a guy brushed my hair and I'd hate it if he socialized like a female nad in no way would i ever worry about a guy threatening my territory. So :p I disagree with you and your whole speech there gives me the impression that your insecure about meeting and getting romantically involved with a girl so you retaliate back at us and I find it offending..

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