Why do nice guys finish last?

LightningCountX · Post by **LightningCountX** » Wed Jul 16, 2003 12:52 pm

Wtf.....I dont get this....why is it that every bad thing possible happenes to all the good guys? This really pisses me off so badly, cause me and my friends are really nice, and we get stepped all over all the time, and I havent had a girlfriend in a year almost, and she was into the relationship for looks, not personality, WHAT THE HELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP ME!!!!

Jebadia · Post by **Jebadia** » Wed Jul 16, 2003 12:54 pm

welcome to the bitch that is life.

Anime-DJ · Post by **Anime-DJ** » Wed Jul 16, 2003 12:58 pm

that sucks.......

LightningCountX · Post by **LightningCountX** » Wed Jul 16, 2003 1:00 pm

btw.....forgot to include this in first post.....all the assholes that put people down, beat people up, and do bad stuff always get the girls, the job, and the nice car mommy bought them....And all I have is absolutely.............................................................NOTHING

EarthCurrent · Post by **EarthCurrent** » Wed Jul 16, 2003 1:09 pm

Maybe the girl, the car, and the nice job aren't really what's important in life.The fact that you to want these things but feel anger and frustration at not being able to acquire them leads to bad karma.

Rid yourself of the desires to possess what you don't have, and be content with what you do.

Roke · Post by **Roke** » Wed Jul 16, 2003 1:17 pm

This topic has already been made by AnimeJedi.

KungPaoChicken · Post by **KungPaoChicken** » Wed Jul 16, 2003 1:21 pm

LightningCountX wrote:why is it that every bad thing possible happenes to all the good guys? This really pisses me off so badly, cause me and my friends are really nice, and we get stepped all over all the time

because the proverbial "nice guy" are the ones who are submissive to just about everything. they figure they can get into the pants of any female just by doing whatever they ask them to, including but not limited to, buying them everything, letting them walk all over them, etc.

the "nice guy" isn't really a "nice guy" at all. he isn't self-confident. he isn't a leader. he basically sits there all day whining about how nice guys get the shaft. the "nice guy" is just your average pathetic loser.

here's a thought. instead of letting people walk all over you, why don't you put your foot down and say, "bitch, I don't have to take this crap from you", and leave? it doesn't matter how hot or cute she is; as soon as she disrespects you, it's time to walk.

madmallard · Post by **madmallard** » Wed Jul 16, 2003 1:29 pm

real nice guys don't care if they finish last, or at all. They care if their friends do.

Quixotic , but true.

Kazutaka · Post by **Kazutaka** » Wed Jul 16, 2003 2:18 pm

I feel for you man, my life has not exactly been "good times and noodle salad either" I had a girl friend one time that could not stay with a nice guy to save her life, and I think with the choices she has made it may come to that one day. I have seen it many times over with the girls that I know. I dont understand it. There is a lot of bad out there, and they seem to choose that over the good. I have also had to struggle just to survive while I have seen others get everything (mates, jobs, cars, money etc). I dont know maybe thats why they wrote the book 'Bad things happen to good people' Ive never read it because I dont want to dwell on it.

But IM STILL WAITING and waiting for that special person to come into my life, and I am very nice (mostly harmless). GOD sometimes I feel like I have DOORMAT tattooed across my forehead!!! And I am very self-confident, I dont sit around and whine but I do keep looking (in vain) and I am in no way submissive. And Im tired of hearing that all things come to thoes who wait, because they dont damnit!!!

AHHHHHHHH! Ok enough ranting, just wanted to let you know that you are not the only ones in the same boat, but it seems to be getting crowded in here.

youkokitsune106 · Post by **youkokitsune106** » Wed Jul 16, 2003 2:36 pm

LightningCountX wrote:Wtf.....I dont get this....why is it that every bad thing possible happenes to all the good guys? This really pisses me off so badly, cause me and my friends are really nice, and we get stepped all over all the time, and I havent had a girlfriend in a year almost, and she was into the relationship for looks, not personality, WHAT THE HELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP ME!!!!

I'm sorry that bad things happen to you and your friends..... and your old girlfriend...... if she was just into looks than she wasn't worth it.

LightningCountX wrote:all the assholes that put people down, beat people up, and do bad stuff always get the girls, the job, and the nice car mommy bought them....And all I have is absolutely.............................................................NOTHING

they're just more direct. I'm sure that if you weren't shy.... and went up to pretty girls that you liked...... if you really are the nice guy you say you are..... I'm pretty sure you'll get a girlfriend soon.

Girls that like nice guys are out there......... you just have to look for us....

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