AKH257! New member and a friend of the Angel!

darkyre · Post by **darkyre** » Sat Nov 23, 2002 7:08 pm

uh, but its not a fact, just a surprisingly accurate opinion. i help my friends with their lovelifes all the time, and i never have problems.

OhMyBelldandy009 · Post by **OhMyBelldandy009** » Sat Nov 23, 2002 7:52 pm

darkyre wrote:uh, but its not a fact, just a surprisingly accurate opinion. i help my friends with their lovelifes all the time, and i never have problems.

It is an opinion. Also, love is definetly different for everyone. It's when you'd rather be with someone than do anything else. Like you don't care what happens to you, as long as they are happy. When you'd give up all of your belongings to see them one last time. When you'd break all of the rules just to see them. When you could ignore your hormones and wait until they are ready to have sex (Not a lot of people can do that). It doesn't matter how old or young a person is. Love is about respect, honesty, loyalty, sticking up for eachother, supporting one another in their times of need, and things like that. When you love someone, you do little things just to make them happy. You listen to every word they say, and remember small details. You remember all of their quirks, the way they laugh. If you're in love, you could be having the worst day ever, and just sending them an email can make you happy. It has nothing to do with age whatsoever.

OhMyBelldandy009 · Post by **OhMyBelldandy009** » Sat Nov 23, 2002 7:53 pm

EXTENTION OF LAST POST:

Welcome to the org, Andy!

JustAnOrdinaryPanda · Post by **JustAnOrdinaryPanda** » Sat Nov 23, 2002 7:54 pm

OhMyBelldandy009 wrote: It is an opinion. Also, love is definetly different for everyone. It's when you'd rather be with someone than do anything else. Like you don't care what happens to you, as long as they are happy. When you'd give up all of your belongings to see them one last time. When you'd break all of the rules just to see them. When you could ignore your hormones and wait until they are ready to have sex (Not a lot of people can do that). It doesn't matter how old or young a person is. Love is about respect, honesty, loyalty, sticking up for eachother, supporting one another in their times of need, and things like that. When you love someone, you do little things just to make them happy. You listen to every word they say, and remember small details. You remember all of their quirks, the way they laugh. If you're in love, you could be having the worst day ever, and just sending them an email can make you happy. It has nothing to do with age whatsoever.

God is love.

darkyre · Post by **darkyre** » Sat Nov 23, 2002 7:55 pm

OhMyBelldandy009 wrote:
darkyre wrote:uh, but its not a fact, just a surprisingly accurate opinion. i help my friends with their lovelifes all the time, and i never have problems.
It is an opinion. Also, love is definetly different for everyone. It's when you'd rather be with someone than do anything else. Like you don't care what happens to you, as long as they are happy. When you'd give up all of your belongings to see them one last time. When you'd break all of the rules just to see them. When you could ignore your hormones and wait until they are ready to have sex (Not a lot of people can do that). It doesn't matter how old or young a person is. Love is about respect, honesty, loyalty, sticking up for eachother, supporting one another in their times of need, and things like that. When you love someone, you do little things just to make them happy. You listen to every word they say, and remember small details. You remember all of their quirks, the way they laugh. If you're in love, you could be having the worst day ever, and just sending them an email can make you happy. It has nothing to do with age whatsoever.

intense infatuation can do all that too. love is something more, and is usually a mutual feeling.

OhMyBelldandy009 · Post by **OhMyBelldandy009** » Sat Nov 23, 2002 8:09 pm

darkyre wrote:intense infatuation can do all that too. love is something more, and is usually a mutual feeling.

No, da! That is assummed. Isn't infatuating more about making out and having sex? Isn't it more about loving someone's body than their personality?

darkyre · Post by **darkyre** » Sat Nov 23, 2002 8:20 pm

thats lust, not infatuation. infatuation is a basic prerequisite to love, and love develops FROM infatuation.

OhMyBelldandy009 · Post by **OhMyBelldandy009** » Sat Nov 23, 2002 8:23 pm

darkyre wrote:thats lust, not infatuation. infatuation is a basic prerequisite to love, and love develops FROM infatuation.

My brain hurts, and Andy, welcome to the org!

Anime Jedi · Post by **Anime Jedi** » Sat Nov 23, 2002 10:49 pm

I'm guessing you don't believe in love at first sight then, darkyre.

Welcome AKH257!

The_Digital_Phoenix · Post by **The_Digital_Phoenix** » Sun Nov 24, 2002 12:45 am

Ok you're right Angel (I called her that cuz I forgot her real org name) I have never had a gf. I have been in love though. It ended horribly so I'd rather not talk about it.

I help many of my friends in different ways. And some come to me for relationship advice. I may not have a gf but I know what I'm talking about on the subject of love.

Anyway, it was mostly a joke to my buddy AJ. But who's to say these two couldn't be happy together? Love at first sight is real and does happen.

And darkyre, you made a very good point there. Often young people mistake lust or infatuation for love. Part of growing up I spose.