Love questions

tenma-tenshi InuYasha · Post by **tenma-tenshi InuYasha** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 1:55 pm

Ya see two years ago I broke up my boyfriend, 9 months! woot!. and he started going going out and having more girlfriends while I lied back. even when all his friends asked me out. Now one of my friends says that her older brother has a huge crush on me! But I feel like i've be using him! wat should I do? go out with him to prove my old b/f i can or not?

Kyon-Kyon · Post by **Kyon-Kyon** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 2:17 pm

If you go out with him to prove something to your old bf, then you will be using his bro. However, if you go out with him b/c you actually like him, then go for it! ^_^

Moonlight Soldier · Post by **Moonlight Soldier** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 2:58 pm

Ditto.

In my opinion most people shouldn't date unless they actually want to go somewhere with a relationship. Unless you're in that "stage" where having a boyfriend is "cool" what you're proposing will only hurt the other person.

GoldenGundam · Post by **GoldenGundam** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 3:33 pm

I say talk to your crush and if you like what you see and hear, then go for it.

digital_monk · Post by **digital_monk** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 4:12 pm

If you broke up with your boyfriend 2 years ago and still care what he thinks, you should consider trying it again with him, because obviously you still care about him.

Otherwise, start dating people and forget about him.

fyrtenheimer · Post by **fyrtenheimer** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 5:25 pm

digital_monk wrote:If you broke up with your boyfriend 2 years ago and still care what he thinks, you should consider trying it again with him, because obviously you still care about him.

Caring about what he thinks, trying to get him jealous, and caring for him are different things. That doesn't mean you should go back to him, seeing as how he's had multiple gfs in the first place and YOU broke up with him, nevermind the fact that it was 2 years ago.

To be honest, I can't believe you asked that kind of question. If you go out with this guy just to prove to your ex something, and this boy genuinely likes you, then you're a bitch.

Lyrs · Post by **Lyrs** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 5:41 pm

this goes in all about me.