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Relationships and Age Differences

Post by Yukina_Raven » Fri Apr 16, 2004 2:50 pm

Okay, so...I was watching my Witch Hunter Robin DVDs and I was thinking 'Robin and Amon make a cute couple'. Then I remembered that she's 15 and he's 25. :shock: Anyway, then I remembered Ruruoni Kenshin and how Kenshin and Kaoru had a large age difference between them (or so I'm told). Then, of coruse, there's Cardcaptor Sakura and the relationship between one of Sakura's foruth grade friends and their teacher. :? I'm sorry, but that's kinda...wrong. Er, anyway...my point is, is this a popular thing in anime? The huge age differences between couples, I mean. Just curious.
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Post by Arigatomina » Fri Apr 16, 2004 3:13 pm

It doesn't seem to be nearly as common as schoolkids or people in the same age group falling for each other. If I think through the main pairings in the anime I have seen, the age difference isn't usually that large.

Most pairings I've seen were kiddies in love - 15 average, found in any 'school' setting anime, including CCS, teenagers in love - usually under 20, this includde Toya from CCS since even Kaho wasn't more than 22 - student teacher, just graduated, young adults - mid 20s sometmines very early 30s, this would include most married couples in anime, though there are some that get older, and some rare babies in love at the other end - the 'romance' with Sakura and Li, or even her and Eriol - same babies under 12 - preadolescents.

The huge gaps usually only exist if the characters look like they're the same age. Kaoru and Kenshin look about the same age since he never looks over 20 (not including ovas). The girl and her teacher from CCS was one of thier infamous 'love' pairings - nothing physical, it's supposed to stand as "I have a crush on you and you're worth waiting for because it's true love" - when you get into adulthood, a 20 yr old and a 30 yr old isn't uncommon, and chances are they'll still look the same age.

There are exceptions - but then again, many characters are done to look far younger than they're touted to be. Take Please Teacher - the boy looks 14, but he's supposed to be 18 allowing the older woman affair. It's not much different from having 'odd couples' where there's a distinct height difference (Toguro & Genkai, YYH), or the old 'monster & girl' pairing with Inuyasha/Kagome (or Kikyo). People like opposites, but more often it's a matter of personality differences.

I haven't seen that many anime where the age difference is 'realistic' - like the preadolescent/teacher pairing - and even then it's platonic love so long as you're not watching a hentai anime. If the younger character is 15 or older (the usual 'okay for romance' age with anime), then a 10 yr age difference wouldn't be too strange. I think of Hikaru and Lantis (magic knight rayearth) - she's one of the 15 yr schoolgirl characters, and he's certainly in his early 20s (19 at the *very* youngest) and looks like he could be 27. As long as we're talking anime, anything's possible.

But I think pairings of 15/16 yr olds is more common than the 'odd pairings', outside of shoujo, yaoi, or hentai-ish anime.

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Post by Cloud Clone » Fri Apr 16, 2004 3:13 pm

Hm, l don't know...I don't think that a relationship w/ someone in such a huge age gap is "popular," per say...maybe it just isn't seen as a real boundary in Japan.
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Post by J-0080 » Fri Apr 16, 2004 3:16 pm

Arigatomyna wrote: Take Please Teacher - the boy looks 14, but he's supposed to be 18 allowing the older woman affair.
He had an extemely rare medical condition, just because it's extremly convienient doesn't necessarily mean anything, though. :roll:
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Post by Arigatomina » Fri Apr 16, 2004 3:20 pm

J-0080 wrote:
Arigatomyna wrote: Take Please Teacher - the boy looks 14, but he's supposed to be 18 allowing the older woman affair.
He had an extemely rare medical condition, just because it's extremly convienient doesn't necessarily mean anything, though. :roll:
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Post by ryuu_hime13 » Fri Apr 16, 2004 3:21 pm

I see a lot of that big age gap thing in anime. Take CCS for example. One of Sakura's little friends was involved with their teacher, wasn't she? I remember in the anime she just seemed to have a crush on him, but I read that in the manga they were engaged or something like that.
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Post by Flint the Dwarf » Fri Apr 16, 2004 4:03 pm

Oh I don't know... 10 years age difference seems to be pretty wrong by today's standards, but 5 or 6 years isn't that bad. ^_^;
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Post by Tab. » Fri Apr 16, 2004 4:15 pm

Shut up pedo.

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Post by Kalium » Fri Apr 16, 2004 4:18 pm

I dunno, flint. Even twenty years ago, eight years wasn't so bad. Of course, the differences are always seen from the perspective of ones age. At 15 or twenty, five years seems lik a lot. At thirty, it suddenly doesn't seem that big a difference anymore.

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Post by Nestorath69 » Fri Apr 16, 2004 4:28 pm

I was just involved in a discussion like this: I'm 24 and this girl I'm nice to (too tired to go into details) is 14- she's had a crush on me for like, ever... Anyways, rather than being the arrogant ass that I am, or going to jail, I instead moved to Utah for college and this ridiculous internship (thank god it ends in a week- back to college to study more!) and people had the affrontery to call me a jackass. Oh, the horror of it all... :wink:
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