from another girls point of view x3!inuyashaguru wrote:from a girls point of view x2LoST RaiNDRoP wrote:thats not wrong at all..Cloud Clone wrote:Agreed. I just think that having a gf with that same interest would be a huge bonus, but then again, I've never had that, so dating is still an experiment for me, so I'm just trying to find out for myself what I like the best in a gf. The girl I'm with now has a better personality and similar interests, as opposed to my ex-gf, who was mainly just for looks...finding out what's most important for what you want in a real relationship is what dating's all about! (To me, at least.) So I'm just trying something I've never had before to see if I like it. Is that so wrong?)v(ajin Koji wrote:That is the best answer of the whole thread.LoST RaiNDRoP wrote:i wouldnt really care... i just want to meet someone who would love me for who i am and accept me and what i like... and id do the same thing for her..though i see you already got a girl that has something that would interest any other anime guy. hehe.. anyways, yea, you would know a person better if you started from frienship then to dating..
my ex bf didn't like anime and sometimes took it to far in making fun of me for it.
I have had experiences from both ends. My ex-bf loved anime and was into video games. In fact thats why we started dating, I was a huge quake player back in the day (maybe even a little obsessed, hehe) till my connection went to all hell! We ran into eachother on a server and he thought it was sweet that I was a girl gamer who was one of the top players in my clan and than he found out it was me. I liked a little anime at the time, but didn't have enough money to buy any and I didn't have cable at the time (thank gawd for satelite.. Yiippie)! He had quite a bit and let me watch it with him. Unforently, something went wrong, partly cause he started pulling the "i got you into all of it, its because of me that you like it" and in quake he started saying how he was always better than me and ill never be as good as him (even though it was my ping and i eventually had to stop playing because of it). So needless to say that after almost two yrs that ended.
Now the guy im currently seeing is completely opposite in me, besides the fact that we both love cars and both like to work on our cars. When he found I liked anime he kept calling me a kiddie and grow up that "that shit is for kids" but i got him to watch part of Ruroni Kenshin with me and I shut it off in a middle of an episode and before he thought about what he said he's like what did you turn it off for? So I got him a little intrested in it. It still suxors though 'cause from time to time he still gives me crap about liking anime and drawing anime characters. I can never talk to him about it, but atleast after some talking to he accepts it.
I also find it challenging to find a guy who accepts a girl who likes anime, cars, and uses her brain. Talking to a bunch of guys who said they "need the "girlie" in their life," sometimes I feel I'll never find anyone because i won't be that "girlie" they want because I am always going to be myself. I get frustrated when a guy is attracted to me for my looks, but as soon as I become comfortable enough to be myself (Emilie, you understand what i mean
) they split and don't say a word. Gets old way fast!Needless to say, it would be a way huge bonus to date someone who is intrested in anime... I miss that part of the ex! sorries for the bible, started venting! ^_~
