- Videos for the Soul 2004-10-27 20:13:54 I miss him. He was my grandfather and now he's gone. Nearly five months have passed since he passed away, and some people might consider this an obsession, but I'm not obsessed. I'm just hurting. Someone can understand this, right? I hope so. He was with me for so long. I just don't understand why God takes all the good people leaving me with nutcases and jerks.